-treat yourself
-relax, take time off
-let go
-exercise
-eat ice-cream while watching TV
-do things by yourself
-be productive if it helps you or
-do nothing for a while
-spend time with people who love you
-get rid of everything that reminds you of him/her
-re-vamp your closet
-get a haircut
-buy some new make-up
-get a mani-pedi, massage, facial, blow-dry.. you name it
-move away
-learn something new
-spend time on yourself
-socialise more
-cry, shout, scream
-talk about it
-give it time
-sometimes you've got to get under to get over